I'm not sure what boxes you went to, however the two that i go to regularly are run by the same two guys and they do an awesome job of both pushing the people that can be pushed harder and also managing the people who can't be.
We don't do the Wendler, nor any strength days, there is an optional workout on the 2nd board for those that don't want to do the main WOD, the 2nd board has strength and a heavy WOD on it too, so either way you're still doing a solid workout.
I get super passionate about it and Disco can attest at how annoying I am, but for me, CF is perfect, its never easy, its always hard and i always walk out feeling like i've given 100%








