by SaNE » 25 May 12, 11:08 am
I think the demise of 'young men' is more from the hard fact that parents aren't around as much as they should be, with both parents working much more common and not having the 'bonding' experiences that previous generations had.
That also trickles down into different industries where it was common place for the child to go to work with the father and learn their trade/profession, which is at a very steep decline thanks to OH&S, childcare, after school care, more school and homework added with the common place pressure that you go to school, high school then university and you get a 'better' higher paying job than your parents.
So where as the previous generation were spending more time with their family, going to school without the immense pressure, working with their parents and having the parents show and impart their knowledge, they had a much more rounded childhood and grew up a more rounded person.
Compared to today's standard of; Parents are gone before you go to school, you're pressured into going to university to be 'better' than everyone else, you go home where you watch TV and play games until your parents get home, you then eat, do your homework and go to bed to start the cycle all over again.
There's a parental gap that is missing, right from wrong, manners, experience, behavior; things that your parents are supposed to impart on you are being neglected and being replaced by school (be it private or public) which simply doesn't teach those things and it's wrong.
Obviously I know that (most of) the parents are working to provide their children a good life which is why they are working so much but it's just the side affect of the cost of living a decent life in today world.
My wall of text and 2c's, don't really care to go into the what makes bad people bad side of things.